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Questions to ask your partner

Couples who keep asking each other questions keep discovering each other. These thirty go from easy to deep.

Light

  1. What was your first impression of me, honestly?
  2. What song reminds you of us?
  3. What's a small thing I do that always makes you smile?
  4. Which of our dates would you happily repeat?
  5. What would our couple name be?
  6. What would your perfect lazy Sunday look like?
  7. What's the most "us" thing we do?
  8. Which tradition would you like us to start?
  9. What would you cook to impress me?
  10. What three words describe us?

Deep

  1. When did you first feel you could really trust me?
  2. When do you feel most loved by me?
  3. What do you need more of from me when you're stressed?
  4. What did your parents' relationship teach you?
  5. What part of yourself is hardest to show me?
  6. What does home mean to you?
  7. What would you like us to look like in five years?
  8. What does a perfect apology look like to you?
  9. How has loving me changed you?
  10. When do you feel most like yourself?

Flirty

  1. When did you first want to kiss me?
  2. What do I wear that you find hard to resist?
  3. Describe our best kiss in one sentence.
  4. What's the most attractive thing I do without realising?
  5. What compliment from me makes you melt?
  6. Candles, music or both?
  7. What text from me would you love mid-afternoon?
  8. Which of our nights do you think about most?
  9. What makes you feel most desired by me?
  10. What should I never stop doing?

Make it a habit

One question a day works better than thirty in one night. Closer asks you both the same question each day and reveals your answers once you've both replied.

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